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The gifts of singleness

flower-heart-gift-food-happy-birthday-textile-1050892-pxhere.comWe all need to hear these truths sometimes:

  • You don’t have to be perfect to be loved.
  • Marriage isn’t a reward, and singleness isn’t failure. They are both unearned good gifts.
  • You don’t have to be ashamed or scared of sexual desire – sex is a good gift too.
  • You’re not needy for needing relationship.
  • The world needs your contribution. Seek first the Kingdom.

Whatever your relationship status, celebrate the good gifts God gives: singleness, marriage, sex, talents, community, and grace. Read more about how I’ve learned these lessons in Part 1 and Part 2 of my guest posts on Corey Farr’s blog.


Someone to come home to (spoken word video)

A third culture kid dreams of finding a soul mate who understands where she comes from, but realizes there’s only one ultimate home. Performed live at Poetry Spot Kenya.


Sex & Relationships: The Bible’s Story (Audio)

We’ve all heard the “thou shalt not”s. But we need a richer story about sexuality to live by as Christians – and the Bible has one. Whether married or single, discover the good purpose God has for you. You can listen to it here.

Originally presented in a chapel service of Africa International University in Kenya.